Body positivity involves appreciating and respecting your body exactly as it is, recognising your inherent worth beyond appearance or societal standards. However, cultivating genuine self-confidence and acceptance can sometimes feel challenging. Here are practical strategies to nurture body positivity and self-esteem:

1. Practice Daily Affirmations Start each day with positive affirmations about yourself. Statements such as “I am enough,” “I appreciate my body for all it does,” or “I am worthy of love and respect” can help reshape negative thought patterns into empowering beliefs.

2. Focus on Health and Functionality Shift attention from appearance to the incredible functionality and health of your body. Celebrate what your body can do—such as walking, dancing, or embracing loved ones—to foster greater appreciation and gratitude.

3. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences Choose to follow people and content that uplift and inspire body confidence rather than perpetuating unrealistic standards or negativity. Surrounding yourself with positive influences can significantly impact how you perceive yourself.

4. Challenge Negative Self-Talk When negative thoughts arise, acknowledge them and consciously counteract them with positive, compassionate responses. Treat yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend.

5. Engage in Activities That Make You Feel Good Participate in activities you genuinely enjoy, such as exercise, creative hobbies, or spending time outdoors. Focusing on joy rather than physical outcomes helps reinforce positive feelings towards your body.

6. Seek Support If Needed Sometimes, body image struggles can benefit from professional guidance, particularly if they significantly affect mental health and overall well-being.


At Heart and Mind Counselling, I offer personalised support to help you develop genuine self-confidence and body positivity. Whether you’re located in East London, Ilford, Romford, Essex, or further afield, convenient in-person and flexible online sessions are available to meet your needs.

I provide a free, no-obligation 15-minute consultation to discuss how counselling can support you in cultivating lasting body positivity and self-acceptance.

For more information or to arrange your consultation, please visit our homepage. Let’s take positive steps together toward embracing and celebrating who you truly are.